how to become successful
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If I ask you what is that one thing which is not allowing you to go ahead in life or stopping you from being a great personality or not allowing you to achieve your goals or become successful and because of which you are unable to live your dream life which you want to live.
Now many of us will answer
this question somewhat like this I am unable to become great because of the lack
opportunities or lack of time or maybe I don’t possess the required talent and me
have a lot of miseries and obstacles in my life etc.
Means they will start
considering all the negative aspects which are as per them the main reason for
not allowing them to excel in your life, to be frank, this is mostly not true as
per author, the truth is the wall between
you and the life you are dreaming for are actually not the bad things they are
in fact, the good things who has made you more comfortable in your situation
because of which you have settled to that Position for example.
We do not get up early to do
exercise because it feels good to sleep extra we do not eat healthy food because
we are comfortable in having unhealthy or junk food and we feel it's ok if we
eat junk food because everyone does the same.
We are so comfortable with our
regular life and routine job life that we do not make an effort to make it greater
to take any action being comfortable is the biggest problem and because of
which our country and unable to become great.
Now a day we do not have any great schools we do not
have great transport facilities because everyone is comfortable with good or
not so good transport facilities if there are potholes everyone is OK with it if
roads are not proper everyone is OK it doesn’t matter because we don’t have to
travel on a regular basis so it's OK if transport facilities are not good and
this how we become comfortable for every worst thing as well and this is really
the biggest problem.
Which helps us to become great from just being good?
Five level leader
Many people believe that
leadership quality is required only for business purpose but that’s not true
you all are the leader of your life you can make your life successful to the degree
you can lead your life hence if you want to make your life great then keep
leadership quality in you and that do the leadership quality of level 5 before
telling you to want level 5 is I will tell you about the people at level 1 to
level 4.
Level 1. Has people who have
special skills who are knowledgeable and productive too.
Level 2. People are those who
work as a team and give their contribution to achieving a team goal.
Level 3. People are those
manager type people who with the help of others and available resource achieve
objectives.
Level 4. People are effective leaders it
falls among the biggest leader who achieves the company’s visions and goals with their
best performance
And the last is the level 5 leadership in
these leaders have mostly all 1st 4 levels of capabilities but they
also, have 2 more important factors apart from these 4 levels which helps them
to reach level 5 of leadership.
1st is humility and
the second one is most of thinking it’s the opposite of the 1st one
which is having a strong personal will.
Many movies or stories shows
that the leaders are always those here type or having a rocking personality but
it's not true many big companies who have
become from good to great has leaders who are calm and composed and talk less
but they all had one thing common.
They have a lot of humility
which means they do not have pride in their work and about themselves they
always respect and help others and they don’t allow their egos to dominate
themselves.
They take full responsibility
of the failure instead of blaming others they give success credit to the entire
team and not him and they are always ready to learn new things they never used
to think that they knew everything this kind of humility was there within them.
2nd thing is that
they have a strong personal will which means they are very determined to
achieve their goals because of the humility characteristics they appear very
weak to others but it's not true instead they are very gutsy they have a lot of
strength because of which they are always to take tough decisions to achieve
their goals.
The opposite but the most the important quality combination is required to be in you to become great.
2. First who they want?
Those who are great of you
give them a bus and ask them to take people at some destination for this they
will not decide where they need to go and later allow every individual to get
inside the bus and take them to the destination no they will not do that great
people first allow people to sit in the seat and removed bad people out of that bus
and after making every good person sit in their proper sit in their proper
sits.
They together decide with each
other’s help where exactly they can go through this example I want to explain
how important nice and good people are in our lives and in order to make any
business successful because the fact is no matter how good your idea, the plan is
if you get people in your business then the chances of making your business
successful become very less that’s why
be more attentive towards good people and try to move ahead with them
and remove bad people from your life if you want your business to work and move
ahead smoothly.
3. Confront brutal fact but have faith
Peter theil had explained
definite optimism concept in his book zero to the one you must be aware optimistic a person are those who see things positively whereas pessimist people see things
negatively for this, you must be aware of a very common example of a glass
of water, if you see glass half-filled hen you are optimistic and if you see
glass half empty then you are a pessimist.
Now peter theil had gone one
step ahead here he had explained that there are two types for optimist and
pessimist, they are a definite pessimist and indefinite pessimist and for optimism
it definite and indefinite optimist.
Now id I explain this with an
example
These were the example for
pessimist but if you say that yes my country will develop with 1 or 2 years
then you are indefinite optimist you.
You are trying to be positive
without knowing facts and logic's but if you say that our country will develop
if we end ignorance and communism and try to finish corruption and which we
will end then this will be definite optimist you are talking by considering
facts and logic.
This how we all should be
definite optimist and through this book author us to not forget about facts
figures are realistic and try to understand about problem and keep a faith hope
that yes problem exists but we will solve it and handle it positively.
Just by keeping facts and
logic's in mind along with faith with two combinations we can become great.
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